Softail_rider85

So, My BF and I have been going out for 3 months. We got in a slight tiff on Friday night when I asked him why he doesn't want to have sex anymore. It was bad timing on my part, however he got really angry and told me I was being an a**hole. I left and he hasn't talked to me since. I know he went to his lake house with his best friend and son for father's day over the weekend. I wished him a Happy Father's Day in a text, but he never answered. I also tried calling him Sunday night with no answer. It's not like he ignored my call either, he just let it ring. He started a new job about 3 weeks ago and has been really stressed and tired and not himself since. I really care about him and want to make it right. What should I do? Should I give him a few days to gather his thoughts, or should I just throw in the towel now. In case it helps, he still has all of the photos of us up on facebook, we both still have the location program we downloaded on our phones and he hasn't deleted me. He works like 13 hour days and is usually exhausted by the time he gets home. He even admitted the night before our fight that he has been really hard on me. Should I just assume he is busy and give him a few days to work through it?

I've been with this guy for a while now. I'm divorced with no kids and he's never been married with 2 kids from 2 different moms. I know what you're going to say, 2 different moms, wow he gets around! He's a really great guy, all of that stuff is in his past. Anyway, we have the talk about what our expectations are from a relationship and all. He has told me on several occasions that he doesn't want to get married, ever. There was a time in my life, when I wanted to get married again, but when it comes down to it, if I'm in a committed relationship with someone, that's enough for me. The part I'm having a problem with is that he doesn't want any more children. If there is one thing I want out of life, it's to someday be a Mom. What are the odds of him changing his mind if and when it were to come down to it? I am starting to fall for the guy and he's already expressing that he's starting to fall for me. I've never been with someone who treats me with the respect and dignity that he does. He's perfect in every way, except for not wanting another child. He always compliments me on the way I am with his kids and jokes that it comes naturally. He doesn't have custody of his kids, he only gets them every other weekend. Would he really throw away what he describes as the best thing that has ever happened to him because he doesn't want a 3rd child? Please guys, tell me your thoughts, am I wasting my time with him?

I've been with this guy for a while now. I'm divorced with no kids and he's never been married with 2 kids from 2 different moms. I know what you're going to say, 2 different moms, wow he gets around! He's a really great guy, all of that stuff is in his past. Anyway, we have the talk about what our expectations are from a relationship and all. He has told me on several occasions that he doesn't want to get married, ever. There was a time in my life, when I wanted to get married again, but when it comes down to it, if I'm in a committed relationship with someone, that's enough for me. The part I'm having a problem with is that he doesn't want any more children. If there is one thing I want out of life, it's to someday be a Mom. What are the odds of him changing his mind if and when it were to come down to it? I am starting to fall for the guy and he's already expressing that he's starting to fall for me. I've never been with someone who treats me with the respect and dignity that he does. He's perfect in every way, except for not wanting another child. He always compliments me on the way I am with his kids and jokes that it comes naturally. He doesn't have custody of his kids, he only gets them every other weekend. Would he really throw away what he describes as the best thing that has ever happened to him because he doesn't want a 3rd child? Please guys, tell me your thoughts, am I wasting my time with him?

So we met out one night through mutual friends. He's almost 30 and I'm 26, so finally a little older guy who hopefully knows what he wants. Anyway, the night we met he kissed my when he walked me to my car. It was more like a make out session, but I stopped him when he started moving his hand up my shirt. Since then we've hung out like 5 times always having a great time. He wants to come to my hometown with to meet my parents and family in 2 months. He keeps talking about things he wants to do with me this summer like take me to sporting events and the beach. When we hang out he's always holding my hand and being really sweet. He acts like a true gentleman. When we were at the bar last week for trivia, every time he got up to use the restroom he'd stop kiss my cheek or head and whisper that he'd be right back. We were laying in his bed one night watching a movie and things started getting a little hot. He started kissing my neck, then he started working down my chest and I stopped him right before he pulled my shirt down to kiss my breast. I really like him, I mean we talk alot. More than I ever have with a guy. We go for walks or to a pub to grab a drink and can sit and talk for hours. I guess I just don't understand why he won't kiss me. He acts like he likes me alot. He always texts me after we hang out to say thanks that he loved seeing me and had a ton of fun! He always holds me and wants to cuddle when we watch movies and such. Why won't he kiss me? I'm open to any suggestions. Should I just try to kiss him next time and see what he does? I feel a real connection to him and he acts as though he feels a real connection to me. His best friend told me that he's used to dating trashy women and I'm the first one who actually has my head on straight so maybe he's just trying to be respectful and not screw it up. I mean, I don't wanna sleep with him, well not yet anyway. A good kiss now and then would be nice to know he actually feels the way acts, if that makes any sense. I'm probably totally over analyzing the whole thing, but who knows. Let me know what you guys think. Thank you!