golddust_woman1

Inola Elementary school list for 2011

My husband has to get up around 6am for work and I must be up no later than 6:45 to get my kids up for school. My husband feels I should always just get up when he does because "most wives get up when their husbands do" according to him! It's not that we don't see each other, he doesn't leave until 10-15 minutes before the kids do. Do you think he is right or should get to sleep for the other 45 minutes that I am able to?

My husband used to be the only one who could control my son but now my husband had a major medical problem and has been in the hospital months. My son has threatened to hit me and my other kids. He has a fascination for military things and guns and he scares me. To think he will be with me by myself most of this school year. I don't know what I will do. We live in Oklahoma. Is there a place we can send him if I can't control him? He has threatened to hurt me, my 10 yr old son, and my husband when he gets out of the hospital and tries to stop him. I don't want him to go to jail but what else can I do? He doesn't have any weapons right now but his grandfather wants to buy him a gun and that is out of the question. Is there a place I can send him if he gets out of hand. One more thing, we found places that will take him if we pay them but we are way broke from the hospital stay and there is no money for us to do this with. Do you have to have money to get help? Please let me know any ideas you have! Thanks!

My son shot a target with paintballs(not our cat) and the cat rolled in the dirt right below the target site. Now our lovely, pure white,boy is PINK!!!! My son says paintballs are made from old crayons. Is that true? If you have any safe suggestions on how to clean "Spot" up please let me know! And please no laughing!!! Spot is not a happy kitty!

I have a stray cat that has come to our house and we now have had her for almost a year because she has gotten pregnant twice and we can't afford to spay her! We have 4 cats of our own and she has been sneaking into our house someway, we're not sure how, and fighting with them. My husband dumped her a week ago and said he took her out so far she would never come back. I was furious with him! She found her way home last night and I am afraid he will kill her if he sees her here. I have tried to get shelters here in Oklahoma to take her but they say they are full and no person wants a one eyed cat! She is sweet and gets around great though. We call her "Winky". What can I do? Any advice?

I have a female, one year old cat that will not use the litter box and she used to be potty trained. Now even when the box is clean (It gets emptied everyday) she goes to the box and then uses the floor right beside it. She uses it to pee but will not use it for anything else. Why would she do this? As far as I know she hasn't been stressed or anything. My husband wants to get rid of her and I don't want to do that. Please help! Thanks!

I had a miscarriage three days ago and had a D&C. I have been very tired and moody. I still don't feel up to par physically either. My main problem is the exhaustion. Is this normal? I was told it should be life as normal within 24 hours.

I live in Oklahoma and the recent Tornadoes that went through killed seven people. The town of Picher, already falling apart from lead in the water from mining, was further devistated by almost total distruction. Then I hear of an elderly woman in the hospital having her grandson ,back from Iraq, go to where her home used to be to find anything that might be left that would be salvagable. Only to find that looters had got there first. They found the poor lady's purse and had taken every cent this woman had and then kindly zipped the purse back up for her. Probably so she wouldn't loose anything out of it! It was reported that six people have been arrested so far for looting at the site and this just makes me so angry that people could be so calous and mean to do this to people who have already lost everything!! This happens all the time at all kinds of disaster sites and I know what I would do to them but what would you do?

Twice on a camp out w/ family( I was 12) my bro in law started playing footsie w/ me under the table w/ family around. I was shocked and froze. At 13 I was left at my sis's house while mom and dad went to g-ma's. My sister took a nap while I was there and my BIL fondled me. I stopped him and the usual "Please don't tell" thing happened. I did end up telling mom but my sisters fragile mental state convinced mom to ask me not to tell her. She might do something rash. I don't want her hurt and I love her so I didn't. I put up with years of mental abuse by him and still said nothing. Now I am married and my husband had a drug problem that caused one family x-mas to get messed up. I was told he was no longer invited to family functions. I was hurt! My child molesting BIL was invited but my now 2yr sober husband isn't! I still don't want her hurt. It was a long time ago but I am so hurt and insulted my once close family would do this to me. I feel like a victim again.