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  • Should I feel bad for what happened ?

    Should I feel bad for helping someone ?

    Should I feel bad for helping someone change a flat tire and then have them drive and their spare blows up too ? Then the police sees this couple with their emergency lights on because their spare blew up and stops them ? Ugg. Feel sad for them. They barely spoke any English.

    7 AnswersMaintenance & Repairs5 years ago
  • Should I feel bad for helping someone ?

    Should I feel bad for helping someone change a flat tire and then have them drive and their spare blows up too ? Then the police sees this couple with their emergency lights on because their spare blew up and stops them ? Ugg. Feel sad for them. They barely spoke any English.

    2 AnswersCommunity Service5 years ago
  • What to do after a husband/wife argument/fight?

    Hi everyone,

    I feel slightly ashamed for having to ask this but I have nobody else to ask.

    Yesterday night myself and my husband had a big fight/argument. Not an actual fight. But there was yelling involved and things said and crying too.

    I won't be going into details but all I can say is that he's a stubborn person and I suffer with that because I can't seem to fix anything after an argument whether it was my fault or not which it wasn't.

    What should I do? How can we get back to what we were before? We love each other but I don't know how to fix it.

    He's not good with talking so I don't think it would be a good idea for me to try to talk to him about it tonight.

    It was the first time we had a big argument like this.

    I tried calling him today but all he would say is we'll talk about it later.

    And I know he won't talk about it.

    I also know that letting it go is not the way. I'm 27 he's 39 and I'm a very mature responsible person and we trust each other tremendously.

    What should I do?!

    I kindly await answers.

    Thank You.

    9 AnswersMarriage & Divorce6 years ago
  • Husband wants me to lose weight before becoming pregnant ?

    I'm a little overweight but other than that I'm healthy, no cholesterol, no diabetes, no high blood pressure, nothing at all.

    My biggest dream in life is to become pregnant. I'm on my 30's and it's always been a dream of mine.

    My now husband, met me I was overweight and he says he has no problem with it, he likes me like this.

    But he insists on me loosing weight If I want to get pregnant. I can't stop crying day in and day out.

    I know he loves me.

    4 AnswersTrying to Conceive7 years ago
  • What does my husbands ex girlfriend want?

    I got married about 6 months ago and everything is beyond perfect with us both. :)

    My husband's ex girlfriend which he had/has a kid with, is always trying to get something from it.

    She provokes him just so he opens his mouth and says something then she uses that against him. Luckily I'm always near and I advise him not to say anything, just to ignore it. He's smart he doesn't say anything. He minds his own business.

    Problem is, it seems like she wants more money from him.

    He pays child support every week on time and always has.

    Has never missed one single payment and the amount he pays was determined in court by a judge.

    So now that I'm married and I have my own company (I'm my own boss,

    It's in my name, and I could consider myself successful as I've worked really hard to have what I have to day).

    Can she get any money from me or from my company just because im married to him???

    Or do you guys think we should sign a post nuptial agreement ?

    My husband says he wants to protect me from her. She's evil, insane and always trying to get something from him.

    Please any answers will be helpful.

    Thank you all so much.

    3 AnswersLaw & Ethics7 years ago
  • Can my husbands ex girlfriend get anything from me?

    I got married about 6 months ago and everything is beyond perfect with us both.

    My husband's ex girlfriend which he had/has a kid with, is always trying to get something from it.

    She provokes him just so he opens his mouth and says something then she uses that against him. Luckily I'm always near and I advise him not to say anything, just to ignore it.

    Problem is, it seems like she wants money from him. More money I should say. He pays child support every week. Has never missed one single payment and the amount he pays was determined in court by a judge.

    So now that I'm married and I have my own company (I'm my own boss,

    It's in my name). Can she get any money from me or from my company just because im married to him???

    Please any answers will be helpful.

    Thank you all so much.

    2 AnswersLaw & Ethics7 years ago
  • One Day Late on Child Support Payment ? Help ?

    Hi everyone,

    Here's my dilemma.

    So, EVERY FRIDAY (EVERY WEEK) has a Child Support Payment that is due.

    I send the payments in for him EVERY FRIDAY.

    I'm in Massachusetts.

    My QUESTIONS ARE ...

    1. Can he get in trouble for sending the payment a day late ?

    2. As long as it is post marked by Friday its not considered late correct ? Or the Department of Revenue would say something correct ?

    He's NEVER ...

    - Missed any payments.

    - Never been late on payments.

    I feel so stupid and guilty now for having forgotten to send the payment today, every friday we get a letter in the mail for us to send the payment for next week and as soon as i get those i fill them out, write out a check and put it aside to send it during the week.

    I COMPLETELY FORGOT TODAY, AS I JUST LEFT A 12 hr. work day today, and the POST OFFICES are closed and the DEPARTMENT OF REVENUE is also closed for the day. I tried calling.

    HELP PLEASE! ANY INFORMATION IS WELCOME!

    THANK YOU.

    1 AnswerCredit7 years ago
  • Want to get pregnant but husband ants me to lose weight first ? Why ?

    So I am a little bit overweight but I'm healthy.

    My biggest dream in this world is to have a baby but my husband wants me to lose weight first.

    He says will be better for me and the baby, and that it's nothing to do with me gaining weight during pregnancy.

    The thing he doesn't seem to understand is that I can be a bit overweight but I'm healthy thank god.

    Why can't I have a baby ?

    It's my biggest dream. I'm 25 and I feel ready, I feel like now is the right time.

    We are both financially well.

    I really don't get it.

    Any opinions please ?? Thank You all.

    22 AnswersPregnancy7 years ago
  • Could I be pregnant ?

    My last period was around Dec. 7th I believe, although I'm not 100% sure. I always write it down, but for some reason I forgot to write about December.

    I was in a car accident on Dec. 19th (not a major one), but it did cause some bruising on my upper area (chest) and on the belly area also.

    On Dec. 22th I had sex with my boyfriend (we used protection). And it seemed to work fine.

    It's now January 27th and my period has still not come (my period is very irregular).

    I have taken literally 10 pregrancy tests from the end of December till today and all of them came out NEGATIVE. I've used First Response, EPT, Clear Blue, etc etc etc, also a few low cost tests to see if they'd tell me something, but ALL CAME NEGATIVE.

    I don't know what's going on.

    Can someone help, give me advice please ?

    Help, thanks!

    1 AnswerPregnancy8 years ago
  • can LOVE be doing this to me ?

    Lately, the thought of "LOVE MAKES YOU BLIND" has been crossing my mind literally all day long.

    I will try to make this super short so it doesn't annoy any of you, as I'm just looking for someone to try and explain this to me, just so maybe I can understand it once and for all and maybe open up my eyes and see what's really going on. And trust me, as I'm writing this, tears are about to fall down my face.

    1. I've met this guy around 8 years ago, the day that we met he came around me, didn't introduce himself or anything, just came up to me, smiled at me and kissed me on the cheek. (very common to do where I was living at the time).

    2. Nothing happened in the next 2 years between me or him, neither did he speak to one another.

    3. I moved to a different country in 2005, and we started speaking, flirting with one another and what not, nothing serious.

    4. Back in 2009 I finally had the chance to go back to my country to visit my family, and as I turn around I see him, and I instantly think, OMG, what are the odds in such a big country me having to see him right now.

    5. We talked and what not, nothing ever serious, but I always felt in my heart that we were meant to be together. I just thought it, never told anyone about it.

    6. So in 2010 I'd visit my family again and the same stuff would repeat itself.

    7. In 2011 things were different, we actually spent everyday (which was about 3 weeks) together talking (nothing ever personal about each other or anything), going out, enjoying each others company and 3 days before I had to come back here to where I live, we kissed. SPARKS FLEWWWWW EVERYWHERE. And as weird as this may sound, I felt it coming from him too, it wasn't just me. I came back here and the first 2 weeks were mortifying for me as I'd cry and sob and I didn't know why the heck I was acting that way.

    8. Now, this year, 2012, I went there to visit again, and once again I see him, he hugs me and we kiss, then we spent 3 months together doing the same stuff we always did the previous years, going out together, eating together, etc etc etc.

    9. There was a minor setback thou.. I came to find out he was expecting a kid from his girlfriend which I DID NOT KNOW he had, and when I found out, I cried for weeks. I did not talk to him for 2 weeks, he was the one that reached out to me, apologizing, saying he didn't ever tell me anything because I never asked or he didn't want to hurt me or have me never talk to him again because of that.

    10. And ME, MYSELF, being maybe as stupid as I am, I told myself "Oh screw it, he says he likes me, but he likes her too, and that he's really confused, but he's saying he likes me, what do i do?"

    11. We started speaking again and going out, we would never hide me from his friends or anyone and to me that was A PLUS, which meant he cared for me.

    12. I would constantly ask him and nag him to the fullest asking, what he wanted with me, and he would always say "IF I DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH YOU, I WOULD HAVE TOLD YOU TO F*** OFF", and I did believe him in this sense, because one thing he doesn't know how to do is lie, so I know he was telling the truth.

    13. I did have an argument with my best female friend which is my cousin, and we didn't speak to one another for weeks.

    14. There would always be something wrong, people would tell me things about him, NOT BAD THINGS AT ALL, maybe little sneaky things, and I wouldn't mind, I would say, YEAH I DON'T CARE ABOUT THAT, PEOPLE LIKE TO TALK A LOT.

    15. To finish this off, If I could I'd make him live here with me, but there are a few set backs regarding that manner (nothing serious), as he's mentioned that he wanted to live w/ me, a couple times.

    16. Everything people say or try to tell me, as much as It hurts me, I get over it really quick and find myself always talking to him.

    16. His friends love me, in the sense of friendship of course, I consider them my brothers and sisters and so do they, and they constantly comment they think we should be together, we should marry, have kids and what not, and this makes my heart run 100 miles an hour.

    *PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME, I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO THINK. MOST DAYS I FIND MYSELF THINKING, THIS HAS GOT TO BE A HUGE TEST FROM GOD TRYING TO SEE IF I CAN HOLD ON, TO NOT GIVE UP ON MY DREAMS, THAT EVERYTHING WILL GET BETTER SOON AND WE'LL FINALLY BE HAPPY*

    COULD I BLINDED BY LOVE ?

    I apologize from the bottom of my heart for the lack of details in this story, but there's just so much stuff, that I can't seem to write it all down. Also for making this so long.

    thank you!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Parede branca suja. O que usar para limpar ?

    Oi gente, estou precisando da ajuda de vocês.

    É o seguinte, a parede aqui em casa é branca, e não tem como não sujar né, sujou um pouquinho e agora estou louca tentando limpar.

    Tentei com lixivia/aditivo (que deixa tudo branquinho), mas tô com medo de usar e a tinta começar a descer na parede.

    O que posso usar para que as paredes fiquem branquinhas novamente ?

    Um beijo para todos e vlw! ;)

    7 AnswersLavanderia e Limpeza9 years ago
  • Casa de férias, aluguel, sem contrato, ajuda pls!?

    Oi gente,

    Estou de férias, estou de aluguel em um apartamento pequeno de uma pessoa.

    Não foi assinado contrato, nem nada, Dei 50% quando cheguei, e os restantes, darei quando sair ...

    A proprietária do apartamento é uma chata daquelas. (Vocês vão entender porque falei isso)

    Já que a hora de partir está chegando, eu arrumei e limpei todo o apartamento, e deixei ele nas exatas condições de quando me entregaram ele(quando cheguei).

    MAS TEM UM PROBLEMA ...

    - A parede é branca, e em algumas partes sujou e ficou assim meio que escuro, eu limpei, limpei, e tá dificil de sair. Aconteceu né gente, eu sempre tive muito cuidado com o apartamento mas a parede sujou.

    Será que ela pode pedir para eu pagar alguém para arrumar/pintar a parede, ou isso será responsabilidade dela ???

    RELEMBRO QUE NÃO ASSINAMOS CONTRATO.

    Me ajudem a entender amores,

    Agradeço de coração!

    3 AnswersImóveis9 years ago
  • How long will my cold last ? =(?

    Hi everybody, and yes I know I know that Yahoo Answers is no doctors office, LOL, but I need your input on this...

    Ok so, Monday night I went out, danced a bit, then came out and it started raining. I guess I caught this cold this way.

    The next morning (Tuesday) I woke up with the weirdest cough ever, and everytime I'd caugh my head would hurt like hell.

    TO MAKE THIS SHORT, I've been taking a coughing syrup that seems to be working, and some pills for the fever, nose and pain, which I think might be working as well, since everytime I take them I sweat a lot, which means it is trying to get rid of this fever right ??????

    HOW much longer will this cold last ?? I have so much to do, but can't find the strenght to do it and I'm still a bit oozy, sort of dizzy/weak.

    What do you think ??

    1 AnswerInfectious Diseases9 years ago
  • PDS!! Mulheres, me ajudem por favor ...?

    - Transei com o meu namorado dia 12 de Maio, mas a camisinha acho que estoirou e 6 horas após tomei a PDS e 7 dias depois menstruei, blz.. (pílula funcionou)

    - Ontem transamos novamente e NOVAMENTE a camisinha estoirou ... Tomei PDS novamente ...

    - Foi a minha segunda vez tomando PDS na vida, mas tomei duas vezes no mesmo mês.

    - Eu sei que perde a eficácia quando tomada muitas vezes, mas ... será que posso ficar grávida após ter tomado essa 2ª PDS no mesmo mês ?

    Me ajudem por favor :(

    (((( Sim eu sei, foi burrice minha tomar duas no mesmo mês sabendo que essa pílula é ruim d+ pro organismo da gente, e também sei que pode perder a eficácia se tomada muitas vezes, e também sei que não deve ser tomada assim, mas aconteceu ... ))))

    Gente, por favor, sem comentário inútil ou desmoralizante ... Estou preocupada demais ...

    Agradeço de CORAÇÃO a quem me souber responder essa perguntaaaa ... Um abraço ....

    Alguém aqui ja tomou 2 PDS no mesmo mês ? Se sim, a segunda PDS funcionou ? Tô com medo que não funcione. :(((

    3 AnswersGravidez9 years ago
  • Better to bring smaller or larger bills when travelling ?

    I'm just wondering ...

    What's your personal preference ?

    Bringing large denominations to a trip or smaller ones ?

    To me the only downside of bringing small bills, is that if you're bringing a large amount of money, it will take too much space, on the other hand I don't know how I feel about bringing larger bills.

    What's your opinion on this ?

    Thanks in advance.

    3 AnswersPacking & Preparation9 years ago
  • What happens if a car rear ends me and i hit the car in front?

    Ok I was driving peacefully home, and all of the sudden i hear a BOOM from behind (which was my car being rear ended) and I accidentally hit the back of the car in front of me.

    I immediately called the cops who were pretty fast getting to the accident spot, and after the person admitted it was their fault for hitting me in the back and making me hit the car in front of me because she was distracted ... the cops told her the same thing.

    Cops to the girl that hit me: "When it comes down to it, it's you that's at fault, because you were to close to the car in the middle (me), you bumped into her making her bump into the car in front of her (me)."

    So then the cops ran all our information, ended up giving the girl a ticket, and explaining everything that is going to and that needs to be done, and whatever, and sent me, and the car in front of me home.

    How do insurance companies work with this kind of information ? I have the girls license plate marks in the back of my car, but in the front there's a 3 to 4 inch small hole due to my car hitting the one in front of me which had a bike transporter in the back or whatever.

    Cops said I had nothing to worry about, neither did the lady in front of me. But It just worries me.

    Help me understand this, thank you.

    2 AnswersInsurance & Registration9 years ago
  • Placed an order online, please Help!!?

    I've placed my first order on Friday on www.harrietcarter.com but on their website they don't state how long their shipping or order processing will take, just how much it costs.

    Has anyone ordered anything from them ever, and if so, do you know how they work ? :)

    Thank you in advance.

    1 AnswerOther - Business & Finance9 years ago
  • Caught a cold, OPINIONS PLEASE!?

    Caught a cold in the eye .. Help ..? *PLEASE READ IT ALL*

    Hi everyone. Hope everyone is well :)

    Last weekend I caught a cold, it all started with a sore/itchy throat, but then it got better and turned into a stuffy nose.

    Monday I wake up and my right side of the face around my nose/eye feels weird. I go to check it and it's somewhat swollen and red. Not painful, or itchy or anything.

    Just swollen and watery,so I know it is not pink eye, I've discarded that possibility.

    Today it's Thursday and my eye is no longer red or that much watery, just a little tiny bit watery from time to time.

    I'm relieved. THE THING NOW is ... my eye compared to the other one looks smaller, I'm guessing it's a bit swollen still, just on the eyelid.

    How long will it take for my eye to look normal again ?

    AGAIN ... there's no redness anymore, it's just watery from time to time, twice a day maybe ...

    Thanks in advance.

    2 AnswersOther - General Health Care9 years ago
  • Exchanging Dollars to Euros (Bank Of America). Help!!!!?

    Ordering foreign currency (euros) through Bank of America. Safe ?

    Has anyone ever exchanged/ordered Euros from Bank of America ?

    I know almost everything about their rates and how they work in regards to exchanging currency, etc, I just can't find reviews on it.

    I'm just wondering if anyone has done it and if it was successful and safe at all. Meaning. I'm afraid I might get fake/fraudulent bills, which of course it's not the banks fault, but you know.

    Thank you in advance.

    1 AnswerOther - Business & Finance9 years ago
  • How did your dog do after being spayed/neutered ?

    The Vet recommended me to have my dog spayed/neutered while on the surgery for the mammary tumor removal. Here's my previous question, If you'd like to know a little bit more, of what's happening. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Arh6J...

    My question to all of you who have experienced this, is ...

    - How did your dog feel after surgery ?

    - Did it take long for them to get back to their normal life, (eating, peeing, pooping)..

    - Walking, etc ...

    I have a mixed chihuahua who's nearly 12 yrs old. And I'm worried on the after care. I know the Dr will give instructions, but I'd like to know everything I can, so I can make my dog have the nicest recovery.

    Thank you all in advance.

    Please no mean answers.

    God Bless!!

    4 AnswersDogs9 years ago