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How do you flirt?

Okay I'm 14 and never had a bf...pathetic huh? Well my freind told me to flirt then they will flirt back and I need to know how to flirt so the guys are all over me! Plz help me!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Laugh at their jokes, playfully hit them on the shoulder or push them, smile a lot in their direction, show an active desire to be near them, hang out with them a lot, get close, etc. This is called social touching. It's something that's not out of place when you're around friends. When you get comfortable around each other, then you move on to holding hands and whatnot.

    Simple example, you're watching tv with this guy and a bunch of others. Sit next to each other. Joke around, have fun(this is most important cause if you're not having fun, they're not having fun), sit shoulder to shoulder, laugh and hit him on the shoulders a few times(this is a MAJOR giveaway to a guy or hopefully it should be. Touching is a sign that you're interested), tell some stories about your crazy dad or dog or something, and by this time, he should reciprocate if he feels the same way.

  • 1 decade ago

    wrong attitude to have being ur so young. first of all there is no one way of flirting that works on everyone. and so what ur only 14 and havent had a bf if u said 41 then i would wonder. your main concern should not be trying to get boys to be all over you. your main concern should be your education and making ur parents proud by bringing home good grades. i am a parent myself and the last thing i would want to hear from my son is "dad guess how many girlfriends i got". Worry about school and staying away from the guys that want to be all over you. the last thing u want to happen is not to be able to graduate because of a baby

  • Rara
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    No, not really. Well, I don't even mean to half the time but people think I'm flirting with them. Just be yourself! Talk about some mutual interests and look into his eyes.

  • 1 decade ago

    just talk to guys.. im 13 and i have only had 1 bf that lasted 2 weeks. I flirt with guys all the time cause i talk to them alot. I actually am kinda going out with this guy for so far 3 months but i cant really go out with him cause my parents dont like the fact he is a "bad boy" and that he is black. ( There not racist believe me!) Most of the time even when your talking to them your flirting. :]

  • 1 decade ago

    when they flirt it's just when they joke around with something. And they usually hang out with your group of friends. So when you flirt just joke back. Nothing to offensive that could ruin your chance.

  • 1 decade ago

    This is not pathetic, I'm 15 and have never had a bf... I need help with the fliriting tho too...hmm

  • 1 decade ago

    i'd have to say that 14 is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too young to flirt. please do not initiate that behavior at such a young age, especially for a young lady.

  • 1 decade ago

    A good way is playing around with them and talking to them. it works for me. try it

  • 1 decade ago

    just talk to them only touch them a little bit and when you laugh throw your head back a bit...and just act natural...

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