How do I find purpose in my life?

It sounds like either you're in your 20's or a severe rut in life.

If it is that you're still young, let me tell you that it's so normal I just can't tell you. Either way, it's a very tough thing finding your place in this world, honestly. It was a tough road for me, too. I started off feeling very alone, kind of flitting around the country "looking for myself, & my life" Strangely enough, it was this journey that lead me to find myself, and what I mean by that, is the journey helped me learn and mature, realize things in life's "bigger picture" and not just the day to day routines that bog us down in mediocrity. On that note, I would suggest to you to "start living". Take a weekend trip out of town, something that is affordable if you're tight on $. Go sightseeing by yourself.. Discover the things that make you feel alive, because I'm telling you, "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."-Ferris Bueler

This journey will lead you to meet new people and have cool experiences.. just be open to it, is the key. I wish you the best of luck!

I think we all wonder at sometime why we are alive and we may not know the answer for that for many years but you have to hang in there! Life is an adventure of many twists and turns... if we knew the exact path we needed to take there would be no Thrill.

What did you enjoy pretending as a child? What were your favorite toys? You need to really think about that and only you can answer. That should give you a clue as to what career would bring you the most joy.

What interests you now? If there is a club or activity that you can join involving your interests then the social and love life will follow.

Deepak Chopra has a good book (The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success) that will help you figure out your life's purpose.

With regards to hating your job, no social life, love life, etc. remember that you are not alone. Few people like what they do, most are unhappy with those surrounding them. I know it is a small consolation that others feel the same way as you do. We spend most of our adult lives at a job, try to improve it. Look for other work (the best time to look is when you are working). A small improvement in a job will pay greater dividends. Finally, don't look for "a reason for being alive". That's been pondered for centuries. Just do your best to make yourself happy or satisfied, everything else will take care of itself. Doing our best is all we can ask of ourselves. Good luck to you.

The first thing you need to know is that what your feeling is very common. We all at one time or another ask ourselves the questions...Why am I here anyway?? The good news is that this is a great opportunity for you to experience a real change in your life. It is usually pain that moves us from the ordinary to the extra ordinary. So now what? I would say that the first step to finding purpose is to explore your passions or at least what you used to be passionate about. What do you like to do? Ask yourself "If I had a billon dollars what would I do with myself? This is the time for self discovery. You may even check out Life Purpose Coaching (which is what I do) It is a way for someone else to ask the right questions and help you see in yourself what you may not be able to see in yourlself.

Lastly.....Since I am a believer in God I would be missing the boat if I did not say to ask the one who designed you. God! He already knows what you were meant to do and I believe he will show you.

Hope this helps!

You are looking in all the wrong places, before you can find purpose in life, find purpose for your being. Many find this purpose in religion, so 'shop' for one, and find one that gives you a defined reason for your existence that is closest to your own philosophies*. Once you are in tune with your own being, people will notice you more, and oppurtunities will arise to advance yourself. Once you have become more successful (whatever your idea of success is) make sure that you do not forget about the faith that has brought you closer to inner happiness. Dont find faith only when you are down. Good luck in turning your life around- and closer to God!

*I am not suggesting any individual religion, so make this very personal choice on your own

One step at a time 1) Get involved in the community (Habitat for Humanity, etc.). This will allow you to do good for others and make like-type friendships. 2) Join e-harmony or match.com and start dating others. 3) Assess what you don't like about your job and either find a way to improve your situation at your current job or find one that is better suited.

That said, you may want to seek counseling to help get you through this rough patch. Things will get better. Many people experience just what you are right now and pull out of it. Good luck.

I felt the same way. What I did and you may find this helpful is I met new people and engaged in different activities. Do something you never usually do; like go to bingo or things like that. You're bound to create a darn good social life! Good luck!

everyone is put on this planet for a purpose. think about the good things in your life. you can easily make friends or find a love interest from work or at church or social events.

alot of people dont like their jobs. i wouldnt worry about that. just take the time to find another one that you would enjoy better.

everyone goes through rough points in there life, but you need to grab it by the balls and take charge of your life!

It sounds like you might be suffering from depression. This is not a bad thing; many people become depressed for many different reasons. Make an appointment with your doctor and tell him or her how you've been feeling. Ask him or her to refer you to a doctor who can help (preferably a psychiatrist who can prescribe the appropriate dosage of the right medicine just for you.) Good luck.

well ive felt like that in the past and ive realised its all because you need CHANGE

so maybe change careers .. meet new people and spend more time with family or loved ones.. after a while you will adjust and find purpose .. the hardest thing is getting there but once you are nearly there it will be easy

good luck =]

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