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Should I break up with her?
I really care about my girlfriend and would do any thing for her. pretty much new we had our differences at first but we got along great. I always loved getting to spend time with her.
but she was always really hard to get a hold of like she never answers a phone. and I accepted that and didn't really care. but she could never really give a a streight answer like when she went to visit family she would tell me she was coming back one day and come back two days after that. this time has me upset, she said she was going to visit her mom for 4 days. when it was time for her to get back she didn't, her cousin had a baby soo I understood and didn't let it bother me.
then a few days later I was talking to her on the phone and asked her when she would be coming back she said she would come back to visit soon. VISIT! turns out she decided to move in with her mom and never told me anything. they live an hour and a half away. its been 4 and a half weeks since i've seen her.
the part that really made me upset that I wanted to leave her is she quit calling me three and a half weeks ago and I could never get a hold of her to talk. so I caled her parents number and they got her for me. she said hi, i said "i havent got to talk to you for a few weeks", she said "yeah, I know. Im busy right now. bye". so i had to hang up. havent seen her in over a month havent got to talk to her in nearly a month and when i finnaly get hold of her shes too busy to talk for 5 min. should I break up with her.
her family is real brokeup her mom didn't want anything to do with her when she was young. but now that shes 19 her mom if finally trying to step in. shes finnaly getting to spend time with her mom but now I feel shut out.
2 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I had a similar problem before, if you wanna break up with her dont call her anything like that, if she calls dont answer make her feel, like you feel right know. If you been going out with the girl then maybe she just needs a break (which sometimes is healthy for a relationship) but make her miss you and dont answer her phone calls, if she wants to hang out tell her you already have plans. GOOD LUCK
- 1 decade ago
usually if u have to ask a question like that, you already know the answer. try to remove your emotions from the situation, and look at it clearly and rationally. you already know what it is you should/want to day anyway. does she know she's your girlfriend???? guys, stop making women the center of your attention. live your life, build for a future, and beautiful women will fall all over you, you'll have your choice. trust me. be nonchallaunt about women, and only pay attention to the ones who really stand out.