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I just turned my friend down, what do I do about other guys?
I have a guy friend who I'm really close to but he's the only guy friend I've ever had who I've only ever intended to stay just friends with!
It really hurt me to tell my only male friend that I'm not interested in having a relationship with him... He was really hurt and said that I had been flirting with him but I hadn't, I was just being nice because I like him.
Anyway, we've kind of sorted it out but he's still upset, I guess he's embarrassed that he asked me out maybe? BUT now what do I do? I'm single at the moment but there are a couple of guys I am 'assessing' and both have asked me out.
How is my friend going to feel when I partner up with someone else? How should I break it to him? What should I say if he asks why he wasn't 'good enough' for me? What if he feels really bad and thinks he's unattractive? (he is NOT unattractive). How do I play this without him either thinking I'm a complete ***** or that there's something wrong with him?
Ahhh! What do I do???? Please help!!!!!
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
you could tell him that you like the relationship you guys have right now (as friends) and that you don't want to ruin it.that you don't want to risk your friendship and that you like somebody else.
- ?Lv 44 years ago
Aw =/ See i became interior the comparable undertaking you have been in. I had to tell him right that I wasn't waiting to initiate a relationship with somebody on the 2d and that i do love and care approximately him as a chum, yet i do no longer prefer to destroy the friendship me and him have. possibly in case you tell him the comparable he will comprehend.
- 1 decade ago
You should try to find a girl and persuade him to go out with her so he can get his mind off you. Because if he likes you a lot, it will crush him to see you go out with some other guy. When I realize that I can't get with a certain girl I like, I try getting my mind off her by trying to get interested in another girl or hanging out with friends. That really helps me, hope that helps you!