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Should I break up with my boyfriend?
I am 11 and he is 12. Everyone is my family says im to yound to have a bf, but i dont care what they say. We've been together for 8 months. I really really like him but he is always talking sorta nasty to me. Ever since i got my period a few months ago he is always talking about sex. WTF! He talks about raping me sometimes. And when i tell him that i dont want to have sex and french kiss he'll call me a dumbass or something like that. he wrote in my yearbook "mattie is a whore". he told me he loves me a few months ago, but im starting to feel like he only likes me for my body. he's always telling me i have nice boobs and that he wants to see me shirtless. i dont know if i should just tell him to stop saying these things, or just dump him. please help me.
P.S. dont tell me im to young to have a bf, cause thats not what im asking. just tell me whether i should leave him or not.
6 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Dump him!! This is always how it starts out, the guy wants it and the chick doesn't and then...ba bing! you're pregnant. I know you don't want to be told you're too young for a boyfriend, maybe you're not but definatly too young to be pregnant. Think about it, if you're boyfriend really LOVES you then he should care about what YOU want. and if you don't want to do that then he should respect it. But obviously he doesn't respect that. He's going to force it on you sometime, whether its soon or not, he will. You need to dump him quickly and find someone who wants what you want and loves you for YOU not only for you're body. you deserve better :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Dump him FAST! and don't even hang around with him anymore.
There are lots of boys out there who would treat you better.
Too young or too old is a thing that is different for each person.
I first fell in love when I was 6 and it lasted for longer than you've been alive (so that's proof it was right for me at the time)
A friend of mine had a girlfriend at 86 years old (I don't want to think about what they got up to!)
But the point is age for having a bf or gf isn't an issue.
Take care and don't do anything you're not TOTALLY ready for.
P.S. though over the next few years you will find that most boys do talk a lot about sex
- 1 decade ago
You are not too young for a boyfriend. The thing is around your age ALL guys ONLY want sex. The brain has not caught up to their dick yet. So, dump him and be very careful because guys that age only think with their wiener.
- JayLv 51 decade ago
What the hell? You have boobs...
This boy is distraught, he needs to learn some manners and be nice to you. As for advice, I would break up with him. For one, like you said not to say, you are a bit young, and you can go off and meet other people. I'm not saying your too young to date, which you kinda are, but beside the point. Don't let yourself get tangled up in guys like this. It will become redundant eventually. If you stick by him, your start to think all guys are like this, and your future relationship patterns will be at fault.
Go have fun with your friends, boys are stupid at this age, they are just maturing. I don't know why he would want to have SEX but seriously just let go of him. Tell him to leave you alone.
- strawberryLv 61 decade ago
Hes a jeak, get rid of him before he forces something on you you are not ready for and do not want.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Yes.