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marlon c
marlon c asked in Society & CultureCultures & GroupsLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender · 1 decade ago

How do I tell my guy best friend I'm in love with him, I'm bi curious.?

I'm bi-curios and I'm in love with my guy best friend. We treat each other as brothers. I'm 2 years older that him. The 2 of us get really close to each other, we even wrestle and tickle each other almost all the time. we like holding each others hand while walking and he doesn't care if other people see us holding hands. One time we almost kissed each other but we were disturbed by someone then the both of us blushed. When I'm doing something across the room he would always look at me and when I catch him looking at me he would look the other way but sometimes he would just stare at me for 5 seconds and I would notice his pupils dilate. Does he has feelings for me to? How and should I tell him that i'm in love with him? How should I tell him I have feelings for him?

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  • Nick
    1 decade ago
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    From what your describing it sounds like he does have some feelings for you. Wither they are romantic or not I don't know. The only way you are going to know is if you tell him that you have feelings for him. It is going to be really hard to say but you'll feel better in the end. While you guys are hanging out you should just stop, sit down, and tell him that you have feelings for him. Be prepared for the possibility that he doesn't share the same feelings, but if you two really are this close I don't think it will affect your friendship.

    Good luck with what ever you decide to do.

  • Wayne
    1 decade ago

    I agree with what Nick has said. Pick the right moment and place and tell him you feel your friendship has reached the next level up and that you care for him in ways that are more than just friends. Good luck and happy Bi Day on 23rd Sept.

    As for Abigail: What are you doing hanging out in a gay, les, bi and trans community questions and answers forum? Go get a life with people you do like. Negative people should concern them self with finding ways to enjoy life.

  • Smooth T
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You just have to sit him down and tell him. I mean, given your closeness it seems a relationship doesn't seem far behind

  • ?
    1 decade ago

    1) Just tell him. He obviously is showing sighns of enfection;D

    2) to:abigial: Abigail! Shut the f*** up! Dont judge! You wanna judge, judge me cause i want you to...DO IT.

    Sorry everyone;D

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