How should I tell/show my guy best friend I love him?

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I'm bi-curios and I'm in love with my guy best friend. We treat each other as brothers. I'm 2 years older that him. The 2 of us get really close to each other, we even wrestle and tickle each other almost all the time. we like holding each others hand while walking and he doesn't care if other people see us holding hands. One time we almost kissed each other but we were disturbed by someone then the both of us blushed. When I'm doing something across the room he would always look at me and when I catch him looking at me he would look the other way but sometimes he would just stare at me for 5 seconds and I would notice his pupils dilate. How and should I tell him that i'm in love with him? If i'm going to kiss him should I just kiss him without asking or saying something? Please I need detailed advice.

Rachel Erin · Accepted Answer

If you guys are as close as you say, I think you should just have a one on one conversation with him and just ask him his feelings for you. It sounds like you both like each other but each of you are too scared to make the move. So, I think by you asking him his feelings that would help break the ice. Of course, you can always just kiss him instead...but in my opinion I think asking him his feelings is better. And then, you can just go from that. But, I'm pretty sure he will say he likes you. :)

Good luck tho. I hope everything works out. :)

Russ in NOVA · Answer

By him a Remington Express 870 shotgun and discuss deer hunting.  Take a cold shower and never think about this again.  If such thoughts enter your mind again, then start comparing the results of your fantasy football league team.

^_^ · Answer

You almost kissed before?

People are too careful nowadays. If you came that close to kissing, and you hold hands, he blatently likes you! Go for it :)

demetris · Answer

sounds like he could already comprehend you're involved..... i think of earlier you're making a pass you may desire to communicate with him and tell him precisely the style you sense...possibly in case you %. the appropriate placing that first kiss would be memorable :) good success and let us know what happenes.....

rick · Answer

simply just tell him be like umm hey (insert name here) do u like me? i realy like u like really  usaly by this time the convo changes depending on there reaction best of luck hope all goes well

Anonymous · Answer

What the #^%&? Are you gay? Shoot. Go get your self a girl, man.

How should I tell/show my guy best friend I love him?

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