How should I tell/show my best friend I love him?

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I'm bi-curios and I'm in love with my guy best friend. We treat each other as brothers. I'm 2 years older that him. The 2 of us get really close to each other, we even wrestle and tickle each other almost all the time. we like holding each others hand while walking and he doesn't care if other people see us holding hands. One time we almost kissed each other but we were disturbed by someone then the both of us blushed. When I'm doing something across the room he would always look at me and when I catch him looking at me he would look the other way but sometimes he would just stare at me for 5 seconds and I would notice his pupils dilate. How and should I tell him that i'm in love with him? If i'm going to kiss him should I just kiss him without asking or saying something? Please I need detailed advice.

Jasper · Accepted Answer

Uh..

He is your BEST FRIEND.

Figure out his sexuality before you make any moves, and consider the consequences of your actions.

Perhaps ask him what he thinks about gay people, and if he has ever had an experiences.

I wouldn't just straight up say "I love you", because even if he is gay, it may turn him off.
It would be very awkward if a friend said that to me.
Try not to come on too strong at first.

If he is gay, just keep it at "I have feelings for you".

Anonymous · Answer

i think ur friend is gay if u hold hands and almost kissed another guy i would just say im attracted to him complement him say u like his eyes his body his lips then just lean in for the kiss try not to get a ***** 2 

   good luck

Anonymous · Answer

Kiss him already! Go someplace where you will not be interrupted and make a move.

Is it scary, hell yes! Its supposed to be! Now go have the time of your life.

If you do decides to become sexually active, please use a condom. Live to love another day!

How should I tell/show my best friend I love him?

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