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Do you think I could be a lesbian or a by?

Sometimes I fantasize about women (I am a woman) even though I am in a fulfilling heterosexual relationship.

Could I be by-sexual?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Bisexual means you are sexually attracted to both men and women, so... I'm assuming by "fantasize" you mean sexually, right? Do you think you're sexually attracted to women?

    I think you're bi-curious. You might be bisexual, and just never tried it out, or you might just be curious and want to experiment. Both are natural, and it has nothing to do with being in a heterosexual relationship currently, or whether you're fulfilled or not.

    A big myth about bisexuality seems to be that if a bisexual is in a heterosexual relationship, then they are no longer bi (and the other way around: if in a gay relationship, they are no longer straight), but that's just ridiculous. Just because you're monogamous, doesn't mean your attraction toward the other gender is automatically shut off. You don't have to cheat to still be attracted to guys and girls.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The fulfilling part is what stumped me. Most straight women I know think about trying lesbianism out because they aren't fulfilled in their heterosexual relationship. You may just be curious. I'm pretty sure if you were gay or bisexual, romantic feelings towards women would have presented themselves by now.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If you are in a serious monogamous heterosexual then you are straight. However if you break up and feel like you want to be with a woman you might be bisexual.

    Fantasizing about women does not mean that you are a gay or bisexual though.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You are very definitely not lesbian if you're enjoying a satisfying heterosexual relationship.

    You're most likely not even bisexual, you maybe just have an active and healthy imagination.

  • 1 decade ago

    i'm almost positive that i read somewhere a couple years back that straight women think other women are hot. so i doubt you have anything to worry about, it's just in your nature!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You could be in need of prayer to help you stop fantasizing and focus on God.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    you're bi

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