Are my parents right?

Question

A Ghanaian man who I’ve started seeing has asked me to visit Ghana with him and meet his family in a year.  He’s a permanent resident in my country.  I felt apprehensive at the thought of going there.  However, I asked my parents about it and they said he definitely wants to take me to Ghana to kidnap me and hold me for ransom and they have no doubts about that.

Lee · Accepted Answer

Does your family have money? 
Does your government pay ransom demands?
Have you checked the travel advice from your foreign office to see what common crimes/scams are? Is it possible to meet half way in a safer country, hotel setting?

I feel you should be putting these pieces together before considering the travel.

old timer · Answer

Tell him no, maybe in a couple of years as you haven't known him long it seems strange, i wouldn't go even in a couple of years but if he's still around by then you will know him a lot better, remember once you are in his country you'll have to depend on him for everything, even your freedom.if he keeps you there then you have no chance of getting home. if his parents want to meet you have them come to your country.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think your parents are correct. I think he intends to sell you into sex slavery once in Ghana.

sunshine_mel · Answer

It seems unlikely.

Anonymous · Answer

As a Ghanaian girl, I can assure you that we Ghanaians are not like that. Nigerian... sure(They are known for commuting such acts) but Ghanaians are not known for commuting such acts. But if you really know him well enough to Trust him then listen to your gut. It’s different if he makes you feel uncomfortable or gives of strange vibes but if you’re confortable enough around him then there’s nothing to worry about.

Matt · Answer

It does sound a bit dubious

Are my parents right?

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