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Really, really late bisexuality?
I'm 19 and male. I thought I was straight, but over the last few months, I have suddenly gone from zero attraction to guys to becoming more and more attracted to them as time goes on, both romantically and sexually. My attraction to girls has not decreased. I have been with girls in the past (the first being the time I lost my virginity when I was 14), so I don't understand why I would suddenly begin being attracted to guys 5+ years later. I now find myself seeing a guy and going "damn, he's hot" in a way that I used to only think about girls. Has this happened to anyone else? Is this normal? I don't know what to think. Someone please chime in
3 Answers
- choko_canyonLv 71 week ago
Keep in mind that that the cerebral cortex of a human being doesn't even finish forming until their early 20s. In other words, dude, you're still maturing, still growing, still changing. So no, what you're experiencing is neither weird nor even that unusual. And, at age 19, it's certainly NOT 'really, really late".
- xxx000auLv 71 week ago
Your experience is not unique, yet its not uncommon. While most of us find our sexuality is set in stone from an early age, so do experience change.
I suggest the best thing you can do is do as is right for you.
If someone comes your way and they interest you, then why not explore that.
But never do anything with anyone just because you think its what is expected of you.
What this new experience has done is delivered for you new ways to experience life.
