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how to get a guy out of my system????
Hi. Um, this summer i went on a tour up north in Australia and i met this guy and we had a great fun lil sex/hang out time for the 2 weeks that the tour lasted for. He has so so many qualitites that i'd love in a perfect partner, and i guess i didn't know him for long enough to discover anything i don't like abt him, so maybe he's on a pedistal in my head. But i really fell for him and now it's over and i can't let him go in my head and i'm finding it incredibly tough. We have each other's email but i know that for him it is over now that we're back in our separate countries and back in our "real world lives" away from the holiday atmosphere. Just really missing him and sad because i liked everything about him when i was with him and even looking back trying to pick holes in him i can't find anything i don't like. :( please help. don't know what to do to dull his memory in my heart and clear the way for someone else who lives in my country....
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
ahhh, vacation sex with someone you don't know. there's always the possibility of your next vacation of getting together with him. of course, it'll probably piss off the girlfriend he has at home.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well, it was such a short fling that it's impossible to know that he was right for you unless you're talking about a plot for a chick flick. It was a good time, but the feelings you experienced? They weren't for him. It was the excitement of being in a foriegn country, on vacation, away from your daily responsiblities and meeting a cute guy to have a vacation fling with. I bet the sex was great too! Don't worry, just stop thinking about it. I wouldn't suggest emailing him much either unless you want to go the chick flick route and pursue him.
- 1 decade ago
did he tell you it was over or have you ask him what he feels maybe he thinks the same thing u are thinking and he is feeling the same way,,so why wait email him and ask him what he feels and thinks
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Time, time, time...