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Explain this behavior Pleeeeeeeease!?

I have an uncontrollable anger, I am so furious that i lay my hands on things nearest to me and slam them on floor.

Wonder why i do that..............i know different people have different ways to express anger...............why is mine so Violent & distructive

Update:

Jzka gave the worst answer.....I have normal relationship with my father.

Adding points...........I do not get angry unless provoked ..........i get angry when my principles are not followed when people fail to understand my ethical and moral behavious and when people i depend on act irresponsibly and finally when they argue or fail to understand my viepoint.

I also have a policy to live and let live do not impose on Others at all.

And yahoo answers is my favourite place to help people with my wisdom.

I could not get a platform to do social service like this for my entire life and every answer of mine chosen as best is my reward and life time achievement.

Update 2:

Folks keep adding your viepoint specially in finding what makes me be violent

You are all lovely people

Thank you very Much!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Dats cos you are not attempting to address the source of the anger , but rather let going the stress temporarily. The good thing is , you are stress free and live longer.The bad thing is , you might never get to address the actual problem (source of anger could be yourself, your boss or anything else).The answer is always tough, but unless you want to address the source happing brakin cellphone, chairs , tables etc.

  • 1 decade ago

    My husband has the same issues and has gone to doctors that have told him it is a chemical imbalance. They said it's similiar to bi-polar and that bi-polar medicine can help. They also told him to get his agression out each day on a heavy bag or speed bag (boxing).

    Finding a physical activity that mimics the destructive behavior can help. good luck

  • Ida T
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You're probably a little immature. You need to practice something called self control. When you feel these anger bursts coming on, count to ten or go take a walk. You can control this, and if you can't, go to your family doctor and let him prescribe some type of treatment---maybe a psychiatrist.

  • 1 decade ago

    Buy a stress ball.

    Problem Solved.

    Or if your like me, just don't get angry. Ask yourself is getting angry and violent really what I want, and is it worth it?

  • 1 decade ago

    just imagine ur life like a VCR. press stop. press fastforward and see what will happen if you do that? then think will u like that l8ter. then press play and do what u think its rite

  • Emily
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    sounds like a chemical imbalance. anti-depressants and/or anti-anxiety medication could help. take care-

  • 1 decade ago

    numerous people have this problem. It can be controlled by medication. Otherwise, you will have to control it mentally.

  • 1 decade ago

    You had a bad relationship with your father.

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