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What would you do LDR?
Chatting to a girl LDR for some time, then out of the blue she now says she wants nothing to do with me, no reason. Will not return my calls. I am due to be in that region next week. Would you go confront her to find out why or not bother?
Sorry, yes talk. But if she wants nothing to do with me, is it reasonable to front up at her door unanounced?
2 Answers
- jonny fix-itLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
I'm not sure what LDR is... but no, if the girl has stopped talking to you, you should not show up unannounced.
Trust me, I've had friends who have tried similar approaches, and immediately they are seen as stalkers or creeps by showing up places unannounced. Showing up unannounced will only make the situation worse.
Sometimes we don't get an answer as to 'why' someone stops talking to us. You need to look inside and realize that there's nothing wrong with you. It just wasn't meant to happen. And stop worrying about 'why'.
It's unfortunate, but you have to cut your losses and move on.
