How to I get past having my HOPE, TRUST and LOVE taken from a man who never committed to me?

this is really hard to get past, there really isn't a way to get past it, you just go on living, i know it has happen to me, but i think it as made me a better person in way, see what i did is locked myself in my house for 3 weeks then my friends finally got me through it, 1st i started talking to people then i started making more friends, and it help me become more outgoing and then i realized that he wasn't really that good for me, i mean i still love him with all my heart, even though his hurt me so much. its really hard to get pasted it, just talk with friends have some me time then make new friends, start dating, and finally you'll meet some else, that will be better, it just takes time, and also its different for everyone, some people cant get past it because they have no one for them, so talk to someone.

i really hope i helped and hope you can

get though it, i know how hard it is.

if you don't have any friends that are really

that close. I'll be glad to talk to you about anything

my e-mail is xxholding_onxx@yahoo.com

kk bye-bye

Well, hope, love and trust cannot be taken, it can only be GIVEN away. Losing your love, hope, and trust is only possible if you replace it with bitterness, distrust and resentment...not so much in the person that let you down--but in the concept of love itself.

If you do not attach the disappointment you experienced with this man to relationships in general-- then you will never lose your hope, trust or love.

Sometimes we invest ourselves so much into someone and they let us down. But if you allow your disappointments to take root and apply them to future relationships you will always be on guard, suspicious and overly cautious.

Change your way of thinking on this one. Your disappointment is in this one individual--not in relationships themselves. Do not ever take any failed relationship as rejection. Accept them for what they are and you will always keep your self-esteem in tact.

Dont give him the time of day...

Move on. He's not worth it.