do you feel loved or used?

Yes. Among other things - I'm loved by my dog & used by him too. I am a servant & owner of my dog Conan. He serves me by being my loyal obedient companion. It works both ways.

Loved.

Love is total commitment to the other. If one partner does not agree to this rule, that there can be no trust and one partner wants more from the other than is willing to give.

If ur partner does not show total commitment, ur giving more than ur getting and of course ur being used.

Both sound different but in practice they are the same.

You can't feel loved if you are not used.

I never feel used. Even if the person betrayed me, I never regretted his/her existence in my life. I never doubted him/her. I choose to cherish things in a good way. Pathetic? Maybe, but if it means having truly loved someone, then let me be one.

used!...loved dont know! ve been through both feelings really, hmmm, but! remember you can be loved by others such as family members and friends who havent used you, for sex yh i spose they can use you for other things! hey! maybe its kinda the same thing, like...people love you for what it is about you they benefit from, like.....if they can get i dunno, good advice, closer to someone you know better tham them that they wanna get with, or maybe they just feel happy around you and USE you to make them feel happy, but thats kind of sweet, i suppose it depends, like if you giv em money all the time, they'll fookin love ya! i mean er...the money ya giv em! sooo i supposeee i dno!! yh it just depends....you've got me thinkin now....x

im used to being loved :P

none of thee above..

*shrugs* IDK