What does he really mean when he says...?

Question

Asking for closure:

"I just don't feel like dating right now. you didn't do anything wrong, plain and simple."

& 

in response about us getting back together:

"I don't know, I need to think about everything."


He doesn't like me? Or is he not sure...can I do anything to win him back? Or will that make everything worse.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sweetie do you really want to be involved with a guy who is so wishy-washy?  It is a recipe for heartache.  relationships are hard - even when both parties are fully on board and you are considering one where the guy is not sure?????

Come on - you are worth more than this treatment.  You want a guy who worships the ground you walk on - not a guy who can not decide if you are worth dating.

Let this loser walk away.  Tell him that this is fine - don't let the door hit you in the @#* on your way out.

? · Answer

He's simply not open to a relationship with you right now and only he knows the reason. There's nothing you can do to change his mind. Just let him know you care and you regret that it didn't work out. He might come around one day...and he might not.

stratm663 · Answer

".......I just don't feel like dating .....YOU....right now..." 
but......."i'll think about it..." 

(which means he at least likes you btw) 

ask yourself, what did you , or , did you NOT do? 

i actually dated a girl yrs ago who told me i had to "lose my friends"

What does he really mean when he says...?

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