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How to forget him...?
He said he loves me, then after two days he said he is not sure about it...
Ive waited for him to tell me that, then he took it back...
He is in PH where we both grew up and met and Im in CAN right now...
With that fact being said I still have strong feelings for him even from miles of distance between us...
he did ignore me before and always gets mad at me for some reasons... I already had tons of heartaches from our silly dramas.
What can I do to stop thinking about him, and what we can be if he didnt do what he did...
I want to move on already... please give me advice.
6 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
He sounds very iffy with his feelings, he shouldnt have told you he loved you and then took it back. If he didnt mean it he shouldnt have said it at all. It will be good for you to move on. Cut off contact, for one. Then keep yourself occupied daily and avoid being alone and thinking about things, this will obviously be hard at night time going to bed. The more you keep yourself occupied the less and less he will be on your mind. Take it day by day and eventually he will slip your mind completely and he wont be the first and last thing you think about anymore. After you have waited it out for awhile, hunt for another man! That always helps.
- 9 years ago
I'm in the same boat..I'm in desperate need of forgetting him. Its like trying to quit a drug. It takes time. Stop contacting him, delete everything photos letters numbers everything. Soon it will pass and you won't even feel a thing towards him. I keep telling myself he will change, but the fact is is that no one changes, and if they aren't willing to change for you then they aren't worth the heartaches the late might worries. There are better people out there that want to be around you, that you dont haves to second guess if they feel the same. Get away from him..this is treating me to pieces..
Source(s): Life - 9 years ago
Try thinking about the time before that when y'all were friends and don't listen to to much music cause some how you can find a way to relate it to him but it will take time maybe think about other guys and everytime you do think of him just smile and don't reget anything..:)
Source(s): Soon my friend it just takes time - Anonymous9 years ago
Just listen to some full-beat music, and imagine you have no probs at all. go out of your ordinary hangouts, like for eg. go for a tour or something ,and come back with a fresh mind. sometimes having a girl friend also helps. be positive
- 9 years ago
Don't talk to him, ignore him, get him out of your life. Don't talk about him! Do something to get your mind off of it or go out with some of your girlfriends and talk about their problems. Don't worry about your's. Just talk to new people and take new risks. Trust me, it gets easier. Good luck:)
