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Signs of being cockblocked?

Well, there's this girl, and she always talks to me, and we're really good friends. She always comes up and talks to me or she usually comes to me to start a conversation.

Now, my friend, who's a guy, is cockblocking me I think. Wanna know why? Well, when that girl and I talk, he usually comes over, interrupts our convo, and talk about something completely different. When me and that girl sit down, he usually wants to sit between us. All the time. Sometimes, when all three of us are talking, he's usually looking at her and trying to get her attention. He always tries to get next to her too. I never really said anything because I didn't want to seem jealous or jump to conclusions.

Is this cockblocking? If I don't like this girl, (even if I did before), does this count as cockblocking? If so, what can I do about it? How do I ask him how he feels about her? And if he DOES like her, how do I tell him not to make it so obvious so she doesn't find out?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Being a female (who has done her fair share, albeit in a different [bi] way, resulting in going home with a few women my guy friends liked), I asked my husband for the "guy take".

    He said simply "Don't compete. Let the guy make a fool of himself and you'll win."

    And there you have it.

  • 9 years ago

    If you like that girl you just need to be more assertive to combat his cockblocking. Even if you are not trying to get in her pants, that is some cockblocking right there, not letting you have her full attention ever.

  • 9 years ago

    Well if you don't like her then maybe its ok if he is talking to her. Cus it seems like he clearly likes her. Just tell him he needs to play it cool. And its not really cockblocking if your not in a situation where she is about to have sex with you. So just let him do his thing.

  • 9 years ago

    He's totally trying to cockblock you. Make your move before you lose her! Don't even try to talk him out of doing this; it will fail. Just make your move with her and at least you know whether she wants to date you.

  • 9 years ago

    Bro, he's majorly cock-blocking you, if you have love connections there it's blocking! if you don't like her, he isn't. but don't try cock-blocking him that's just being a jerk off, talk to him about it. and its not worth getting into a fight. he just needs to back off this girl. Especially if you like her.

    Source(s): Bro-Code Bros B4 Hoes.
  • 9 years ago

    Sounds like he likes her and he is cock blocking you need to make a move asap

  • 9 years ago

    If someone is around. You're being cock-blocked. haha.

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