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Is it possible for men not to care what their partner looks like?
I'm a fat woman, and I've just started seeing a man I really like. I asked him if he likes large ladies and he said he 'didn't mind'.
I'm very shy about my body but my ex loved it and that made me confident. However, I'm worried that this new guy would be really turned off when we get to the undressing stage.
So what do you think?
4 Answers
- jakeLv 66 years ago
Yes and no. There's a difference between how attractive a girl is and how attracted a guy is to a girl. You can be unattractive and still have a guy be attracted to some of your qualities.
If your ex loved it, assume that he'll love it too.
- BlehhhLv 46 years ago
Most of the time I've realized, men that are smart care less about your looks and more about your personality than men who aren't as smart. This is just my experience, I am not stereotyping or anything.
- edwardLv 76 years ago
I always like to show off to my friends like "that's my girlfriend, hottest girl in the world" all of them have been thin and proportionate. Saying my girlfriend may be fat but she has a great personality is like saying my car may not start but it has lovely seatbelts.
- 6 years ago
I think that you should go for this guy. Be confident in your body, there is nothing wrong with being a little bigger and many guys find it to be a turn on. If this guy doesn't, oh well, on to the next one!
