Would you divorce your spouse if you thought your spouse was uptight?

This alone wouldn’t be a reason for divorce bro.

If your wife hasn’t said that (or acted like) she’s about to divorce you, then I wouldn’t worry about it.

If she IS wanting to divorce you, then it’s probably more along the lines of she met a hotter/richer man. This small potatoes thing probably didn’t even factor into it

Conclusion: Should you work on yourself and fix this? Yes. Should you do it now? Yes. However, should you worry that it leads to divorce? No, definitely not by itself.

But, many small problems can add up, which is why you should always work to improve yourself in many aspects of life

Oh FFS.. She knew you were anal retentive before she even married you.

Yes you have to be able to be free around your spouse. Otherwise it’s just like being around other people.

It can, get some help to deal with things that wind you up.

If you know its a problem and don't do anything about it, it might lead there. So why not discuss with your wife how its affecting your relationship and how to go about it to turn it down so it doesn't any more.

If you two can't work it out between you counseling might help.

NO, i just tell her she is going to have to have a lot more sex with you to keep you from getting so tightly wound. It's all her fault.

Depends. Are you any fun? Dependability is great and all that but... after a few decades (or less), having FUN starts getting real important again.

no not really .. 99 times out of 100 what leads to divorce is infidelity ..