Could I be with a girl ?

No offense Shawn, but it doesn’t sound like you have much to offer. Being unemployed isn’t necessarily a deal breaker, especially in the current pandemic situation, but when you combine that with still living with your parents, being broke, and not physically attractive, it gets a little tough to see the appeal. You certainly could spend some time getting into shape, especially as you aren’t working, but you haven’t chosen to do that. Young, attractive girls tend to have a number of options when it comes to partner selection, and if you don’t bring something to the table, it’s unlikely you will come out ahead in that competition.

Be honest-do you consider yourself to be an attractive man? If not, why do you think you deserve an attractive woman? That sounds kind of harsh, but really, people tend to gravitate toward partners around their same level of attractiveness. So your girl might be thicker, not a good dresser, doesn’t take particular care of herself, isn’t motivated, unemployed, and is living with her parents. If you don’t find that appealing, ask yourself why she would find that appealing in you?

First things first! Go on a diet, and start an exercise program. Get in shape. Take lessons and learn to drive. Get a job. Do whatever it takes to get a job. Go back to school again, if you have to. Then move out and get your own place. By this time, you should have met more than one available girl. If not, it won't be hard.

Tim you’re basically saying those girls are very far and few between and they aren’t attractive girls 🤢😂

Sure if you find a girl in your exact position!