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Great here we go....??
So, this month, I have been basically feeling like "it's never going to happen", went ahead and made a dr's appt. next month to get some fertility testing since we've been ttc for over 6 months and we're over 35 years of age.
I've had no symptoms...still I have no symptoms. So, this morning, I'm thinking my temp is going to nosedive below my coverline like usual (I'm due for A/F today). Well, it went down but it's still .3 degrees above my coverline and still no A/F, no pms, etc. Never had this happen before, it always plunges below my coverline. I took a hpt yesterday, BFN, didn't even bother with it today.
If A/F doesn't show up, I will test tomorrow. Just curious if anyone who charts has gone past their luteal phase and how did it turn out? I'm just not prepared to be excited about this after so many let downs.
Thanks!
Here's my chart if interested
Btw, FF states
"You are past your usual luteal phase.
You may take a test, you may be pregnant!"
I'm thinking "Yeeeeeeaaaah, right!" LOL
Ugh, I hate this waiting stuff!
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hi Melinda,
6 months is really not that long, even though it may feel like it. You know what worked for me? Letting go and relaxing about the whole thing. I am over 35 and it took 8 months to get pregant (including one early miscarriage). I took all the tests, including HSG and fortunately everything came back normal. We were going to try insemination next month, but I got pregnant naturally. (so far so good, though it's early)
I had finally just stopped worrying and only did ovulation tests. In reading your postings over the past month, I think you are thinking about everything too much. Try giving it a month with just having fun with your partner and realize, it'll happen eventually. I am a control freak too, but when I let go, is when things start to happen. Just my advice as I hate to see you get so stressed and on the emotional roller coaster as I was. Jump off! You'll thank yourself later. Best of luck.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
It looks promising, but I totally understand not getting excited. Give it a little time. I had to quit charting. It was stressing me out. Now I plan on going with the flow.
