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Does This Girl Like Me?If she does what should I Do?
Um alright well we met about a year or two ago and thats when i first started to like her. I couldn't stop thinking of her. Like all day long she was in my mind. I thought she was the cutest person in the world and just thinking of her made me really happy. You could say my life revolved around her.
We once went to the beach together, where we held hand the whole time. She almost drowned when she was out in the ocean and i went out and saved her. From that day we got closer and talked to each other for hours everyday. But one day she went to a school dance and thats when she stopped talking to me. Like For some reason we didn't keep contact. Whenever i tried to talk to her she would just say like a simple response and then leave with her friends. A couple months passed and we started talking again. and our relationship together grew that is until she went to another school dance and the same cycle occurred. So another couple months passed and finally i was sick of not talking to her and tried to stay/be with her as much as I can since after all i loved her from the first time.
We talked and became very close to each other yet again. She started going on Aim daily and started to call me up.(she hardly ever went on aim or called me) so we talked for hours again.
When we are together she starts playing with my hair, drawing on me, touching me, and for some reason makes fun of me. I talked to her friends that i never met before and they all basically knew me. They said they heard a lot from her. When i heard this i asked what they heard about me and they said that she said i was cute. (so in my mind i guess I thought she liked me but who knows). We once slept together (not like sex or anything, we were both tired and we just fell asleep and when i woke up she was holding on to me).
For some reason when she is with other guys i feel kinda jealous and think she could like them. ( i know this isn't healthy for a relationship right?) She liked this guy before for a while (a while ago). and she looked through my yearbook and looked for his picture and looked at it and was like saying to me his picture was so cute. so i don't know wahts going on. she like confuses me....
Thanks for everyone he reads this super long thing.... and thanks for answering the question!!
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I really think you should wait it out a little be more but start to look around for other girls. It seems like she thinks of you as a really close friend. I used to do th is with my guy best friend a while back too and that's all he was a guy best friend. I think you're reading into it too much. I don't think she wants to ruin the friendship.
- 1 decade ago
wow you seem like a really nice guy who wouldnt cheat on his gf you know what this girl confuses me too and now that i think about it that sounds like me lol and if her friends say that she told them you were cute then thats a plus and this must have been love at first sight for you and if she said that a guy was cute in front of you then that means that she is trying to make you jealous and if she held your hand and stuff i think she likes you and i also think you should ask her out and see what she says and if she likes you then great but if she doesnt then you know she will never be into you and you can move on for good
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think its sweet that u got jelous.She obviously said he was cute 2 make u jelous.If she makes u jelous,that means that she wants u to want her more.When she ignores u,she plays hard to get,so thats the time when u have to try to get nearer to her.Dont wait for her to manage u.Not every girl sleeps with just any "friend".She likes u and I think u both r perfect for eachother,because u function so well.If she acts weird,maybe its because her friends r telling her things.Not bad ones,but just thinks about you.That's not bad at all,but good,because she gets to see you as a great person who is different than everyone else.Good luck:-)
- 1 decade ago
ok basicly the solution to this problem is to talk to her.. ask her where your relationship stands.
i couldn't help but say awww to some parts of that i read :)
yeah so just tell her, &ask her if she does.
i was surprised&shocked at the last paragraph cuhz i thought girls were the only one that felt that. lol
yeah im slow. anywaaayyys, good lucckkk :) hope you two end up together. &if m the one who helped youu,YAAY :D
- 1 decade ago
she probably does. Everything starting from the third paragraph sounds a LOT like the way my girlfriend acted for a while before we officially started dating. like, almost exactly the same.
