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Why did my husband check out another woman? (married men only please!)?

We were out for coffee in the afternoon. Sited in an outdoor cafe. When a woman in tight jeans and a large behind passed he looked up and check her out.

People consider me a good looking woman I do not go unnoticed.

Why did he have the need to do this?

Update:

"that's what men do" or "that's how men are" is not an answer!

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Don't tell me you don't check out that hot young stud working alongside the road in the summer, with rippling abs glistening with sweat...yeah, I thought you did.

    When you are eating a delicious piece of pie, don't you check out the dessert cart and drool over the triple chocolate cake?

    It isn't because he's male, it's because he's HUMAN.

    Source(s): married 11 years
  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You might as well have asked "why do men breathe?" Or "why do men fart"

    Just because he is married does not mean he is never going to look at someone ever again! Women like you are what drive men away. Are you really that niave to think that your husband os never going to look at another attractive woman again? You need a reality check.

    GET OVER IT!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Roula,

    We are men and that's what we do. Kind of like a large mouth Bass, we are attracted to interesting things. Just remember, he married you. If you bend over in front of him in some tight jeans, he'll be check'n you out with that special smile on his face.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Because he is a human being!

    I'm sorry but if you have a pulse...you are going to look at someone attractive, whether you are married or not.

    You cannot honestly tell me that you have never looked at another man since you got married? If so...you have issues.

    Leave the man alone. He married you for a reason didn't he?

    Insecure much???

    Source(s): common sense
  • Ben O
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Um - it's the way men's brains are wired up.

    But it probably makes you feel insecure so you need to find a way to handle the situation.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm not a man, but I know men somewhat. They look. It's what they do. I'd probably look too.

  • 1 decade ago

    That is what men do!

    It's rude, it's a bad habit, and no, it's not right, but it happens.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she had cleavage showing down to there, had a banging @ss, tight pants, high heels, that sexy walk only certain women can do - jesus what's not to look at?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't you look at Matthew Macanohay and say "DAMN I WANT TO LICK HIM"

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Because marriage to you makes a person faithful and pious, doesn't it ? Because you would only choose him as a husband because he was so pious and moral, right ?

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