If your man told you his going away for 3 months what would you do?

I live in America and my boyfriend visits his family for 40 days straight every year. Do I like it? Heck no.... but I understand he wants to visit mom, dad and siblings. Could I get mad at him and pout? Sure.... In the end I just have to bite my tongue. If I stamp my feet it's going to cause an argument and may end things, so I just go along with it... he'll be back. I do insist we keep in consistent contact and use facetime....

3 months isn't so bad... think of all the army wives. It isn't bad especially if you trust him. If you already have a broken relationship then i could see why it'd be hard. Let him and be supportive

If you're not married to him it's not your place to tell not to go.

For some people that have moved abroad or a few thousand miles from family, that 3 month visitation is probably something they do about every 3 years or so.

If you don't trust him, then let him go. No sense in wasting precious hours of your time thinking the worst that could possibly happen when he's not with you.

If your bf, not your husband, the rules are different.

But guys being guys, he will find a romantic interest while on vacation. But you can be sure, if you find out, he will tell you, "it didn't mean anything, it was just sex."

So, if a bf, you need to let him go and see if you want to reconnect when he gets back. You may also want him to get tested for STD's.

Let him? This implies you have some input into his and your decisions.

Ask him for his definition of marriage (assuming you are married). At least have some serious discussions about your relationship and how he sees it panning out over the months and years.

Act cool with it and when he leaves pack your bags,move out,and get this farce of a marriage annulled. Its over with.

Change the locks, put the flags out and party.

well if you are controlling then its an instant put off for a guy. so let him go and trust him..thats all you can do..either that or end it. simple!

If I'm not welcome at my in laws, he doesn't need to go either.